When the man's chest is unavailable to sleep on, I have other places I can nap at. As a matter of fact, I have a whole slew of places. What is the most unusual place you take naps? I think it's time to educate the lady on what kinds of nooks and crannies and unusual places you sleep. Then she will know what to expect!
When the lady sees me like this, she says "Oh the life of a cat!" :-)